Motherhood changes everything. It's an incredible journey, full of amazing experiences and challenges, but it can also leave you feeling like you've lost touch with who you were before kids came along. Is that because you’re nothing without your children? Well of course not, but mothers tend to make the conscious decision to revolve most of their lives around them. That’s not a bad thing at all, it’s noble and beautiful, and can lead to the closest of family units.
However, perhaps your children have grown up, or now you have a little more free time you’re hoping to focus on your individuality. That's totally normal, and it doesn't make you a bad mom to want to reconnect with your personality and interests.
In fact, nurturing your own identity alongside your role as a parent can make you an even better mum. It shows your kids the importance of staying true to yourself and pursuing your passions, no matter what happens in life or the responsibilities you diligently keep up with.
But how might that work in practice? In this post, we’ll offer some warm recommendations.
Start A Hobby, Any Hobby, No Matter How Small
Hobbies are a great way to express yourself and feel engaged in learning. You might dust off that old guitar in the attic or finally start that vegetable garden you've been dreaming about, enjoying the fruits of your labor a few months from now ad learning more about your garden type. Or, maybe you'll discover a passion for something completely new, like rock climbing or creative writing online. The secret is to find something that brings you joy and lets youlose yourself into it, even 15 minutes a day, that time spent on a hobby can be incredibly refreshing.
Get Lost In Fashion
Fashion is a powerful way to express yourself, even (or especially) when you're juggling the intensity of motherhood. You don't have to stick to "mom jeans" unless that's truly your style. But if you haven’t really dressed to impress for years, that’s fine too, as you get to play around with different looks that make you feel confident and reflect your personality. Maybe you love bold colors or floral prints, or have a thing for vintage thrifting. Accessories can be a quick, exciting way to change your style on top of that - a statement necklace or a funky scarf can show off your tastes. Moreover, if you're feeling adventurous, this guide to dermal piercings might inspire you to try a more permanent form of self-expression. Whatever makes you happy is usually right.
Get Out Of That Comfort Zone
You don’t have to be the same person forever. Motherhood can be a great time to reinvent yourself and try new things from the top down. Maybe you've always wanted to dye your hair a crazy color or get that tattoo you've been thinking about for years. Go for it!
Redecorating a corner of your home to reflect your personal taste can be incredibly satisfying too, perhaps you’ll run a blog about your reading corner and how you’ve designed it. Just don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone with new experiences, even if you feel a little nervous at first. What matters is exploring a little outside your comfort zone and having fun.
With this advice, you’ll e certain to reinvent yourself and connect to your individuality as a mother.